Comments on: Rage Wave

By: fifilaroach

fifilaroach — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 13:48:45 +0000

Thanks Jane, you observations and support have helped me a lot over this time. I’m feeling a bit better today. Sometimes its overwhelming and you have to just live with it a little. It’s hard to give in and really feel what you feel, but sometimes its necessary. L

By: Jane Beaver

Jane Beaver — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:53:30 +0000

Lisa, When reading this I remember those feelings so well. You are on the right track, but I know it seems hopeless at times. This isn’t something one gets over. but over time, you will learn to live with it, and it won’t consume your every fiber. My prayers are with you.

By: Beth Fricke

Beth Fricke — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 22:42:46 +0000

GREAT NEWS! You are on your way to recovery. I hope you are even more pissed today. Boy can I ever get a lot done when I am pissed.

By: fifilaroach

fifilaroach — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:26:30 +0000

Thanks Betsy

By: fifilaroach

fifilaroach — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:25:11 +0000

She’s kicking around right now, taking names over who moved her lip gloss. I pity her future boyfriends. They better take their Flintstone Vitamins and get lots of sleep.

By: fifilaroach

fifilaroach — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:23:06 +0000

Heidi, Though its been such a short time since it happened, I think lots of people forget about all that happened to the people of New Orleans after Katrina. You did go through an AWFUL situation, saw the death of your home… I’m sure you did grieve! I feel guilty that I don’t think more about all that people went through after the hurricane. So as a survivor, I’ll take your advice and honor my anger. You seem to be doing okay these days, but I’m sure you still have bad days when you think about what happened to you and yours. Thanks for writing, it does make me feel better. Have a happy Mardi Gras, and say hi to your mom and dem!

By: fifilaroach

fifilaroach — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:18:00 +0000

Thanks so much, Bryan. I do appreciate all the comments. It makes things much more bearable. I do see George in Lily every day. I don’t mind a little preaching. Thanks for writing.

By: Bryan Holmes

Bryan Holmes — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 17:58:57 +0000

Lisa,
Grief has many stages and we are never prepared for any of it. Keep looking at and loving on Lily. She is the result of George’s life-together with you and what a blessing he left to you. Look in her eyes and see George and see God at work in that. He loves you and he understands your anger and frustration. We are continuing to pray for you and Lily-and Kyle as well. Death is an inconvenient visitor that we all must face one day but God didn’t leave us alone. As a Christian, I truly believe God feels our pain FULLY because of Jesus’ death on the cross. But he said that he would never leave you or forsake you and he hasn’t. Sometimes we can’t see him, sometimes we can’t hear him and sometimes all we can do is hold on and remember he IS here with us. He is invisable but always there and he wants you to trust him even in the most challanging circumstances. Sorry for the preachy nature…I’m just trying to convey what I believe and sharing it with you in the hopes that it will be helpful. You are not forgotten out here…;-)

By: betsy

betsy — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 15:38:12 +0000

much love and many prayers for you, the little warrior, sara, and the bunny and the dogs…..

By: ruth leitman

ruth leitman — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 15:32:39 +0000

Lisa,
You are an ass kicker, so of course you are pissed. We would all be pissed and we are pissed for and with you!!! We love you. We love looking at every photo of Lily where she finally surrenders after those fights. Cracks us up every time!!! She is an ass kicker too and it will serve her well in this life.
xox